SUSPECTED SCAM!

Romance Scam
derlyale_13@hotmail.com +584141103325 Derly Alejandra Martinez Guerrero

Date	04/13/2023
Fraudulent email	derlyale_13@hotmail.com
Pseudonym	Derly Alejandra Martinez Guerrero
Telephone	+58 414-1103325 (ou 00584141103325) (Info / Risk score)
Scam contents	(Scroll to comment section for pictures) First contact (from its side) in "Quizup" Nov. 2015 -> ale22 (Smartphone app for Quiz worldwide, not active anymore) "Person" was from Venezuela, had bad situation(s all the time). Said, it wanted to go to Germany (safe). I promised to help... Then soon after wish to go to Whatsapp.. because faster... First (christmas 2015): While I tried to find ways, to get it out of Venezuela, the phone broke down. No one would buy it a new phone, so I promised this (off course).. The money I did send there: It couldn't buy a phone, had to buy food for the son. Couldn't let him starve. (I should maybe go away..) And many more sad things, promises and excuses followed. Always one sided. Always pushed away by me.. (or taken) I promised to marry it, when no other way was found. Hadn't like "planned" to fall so deeply for it.. as soon as it happened. (and I'm not someone who forces things) But sometime I couldn't see myself without a chance with it at the (very) least.. or knowing, where I would stand and after the first year it got harder and harder not to feel, not to think (in its sense) and to feel responsible.. Was as nice as possible.. sometime to make it feel guilty and tell what I could have assumed.. but even telling about my depression and therapy didn't changed nothing.. (Your problems are just in Your head. You live safe, have money.., a roof and food in Germany.. YES. But that's why I wanted to help (the one I.. had feelings for). So, I didn't earned better.) (also it - "No one ever was as.. sweet as You." plus me - "the phone fcks up, what can we do." (in one of my deadly poems..) From 2015 to 2020 more or less contact (phone broken, in hospital, no internet, thrown on the street (by "her" mean grandma), in police arrest, in the hills of Merida.. (that was until Apr. 2018 in Venezuela -> after that Cucuta, Colombia(/Spain)), with "all" aspects of a relationship ("our" life, our bed, a child together, ..), minus meeting, minus much contact, minus understanding of my feelings and fear (to get fcked up), which I off course only mentioned indirectly (.. it threatened to break of contact more than once in the first years.. and Yes, I couldn't take it.. easily), but with money instead (without giving me any proof of it's existence until one phone call..). 32.000€ given in total (including 3 big packages: with chocolate (-> Facebook picture(?)), coffee, shoes, a new phone.. which was never used). Always unsure, but believing in the good of that "person".. or that it would (really) need, if not me (like it said), but this "help".. But now I know that there is not always anything good. (and if I have to repeat it again and again) (Funny detail: It told me to stop smoking, thinking about its allergies... I did.) "Person" said it needed money because of bad situations (husband left, situation in Venezuela, no job (until 2018)), for the son, to leave the country, that I had to be strong for the both of "us" (when it was gone long and longer), that it always would be back for me, that I was its person, that it needed to know I would be there and so on and so on (even if it took up to 4 months, until I heard something again.. which wasn't healthy or easy.. not even smart.. but I did wait (and went so crazy writing on my own.. not knowing.. with all all those neverending feelings (forever)); "We" missed each other so so much each time... and "we both knew how we didn't* wanted* that relationship" (its words) and it called me crazy, when I said, that we couldn't meet that same year back back then in this whole fcked up lie... It almost like destroyed me (really), not to know.. if or when "she" would be back or what "she" had to go through.. red and watched many many things about Venezuela.. poverty, crime.. women at the borders.. lovescams.. (while it red about NS-Germany.. and started a conversation once..) Guess what always won.). Btw.: "Person" told me next to "many" things, that "she" had to sell "her" Store, Playstation, (beloved) drums, etc. and was on top robbed after thrown out of Aruba (after working "illegaly" in an hotel), where "she" met some guy that made false promises (and left "her" in "her" misery).. (and I thought: I never would be "that" guy.. not there, not ever, no matter what.. How stupid I.. was..) .. Netherlands were never mentioned (attached Visa Application) (.. but "we" wrote about L.A. (or its dream to live in a big city.. (maybe.. (, with me..) .. some.. day...)) So.. I had only 600€ from the state in the first 2.5 years (2015-2018; made some re-schooling), but I always did send, what I could (safed on myself what I could.. possibly could).. Ending with at least half of my income in the other 2 years (2019-2020). Because I cared.. and.. didn't wanted to see the.. "possible" truth (and told "her" so often.. indirectly..). First to a bank in Panama (for Venezuela; in Comments), then in Spain although it said it was in Cucuta, Colombia (because: "they" did let it open an spanish bank account in Colombia (off course)) under the given name (and address in case of Panama/Venezuela). Fun fact: When I told it in the beginning, that it would take 2 years for me to earn enough money, it said, that it wasn't fair of me to make it wait so long. And.. that it "can't believe like a stupid person" ... (that things would get better) .. (how often I did my best to change its mood for the better.. almost "starving" on my own...) (and I even told it to get a Dr. f.e. to "help" instead.. and it replied, that it isn't such a person.. No.. It is far worse.) Until Apr. 2018 contact via Whatsapp (phone broke down for good someday.. and as mentioned: I even did send a new one) and via cousins phone, friends phone, Mail (derlyale13@gmail.com -> said it couldn't use this anymore sometime -> derlyale_13@hotmail.com) sometime from a Sony Vaio Laptop, where its son threw off onto.. (-> so keyboard defect..), mothers phone.. Everyone had something, but "her" -> although "person" had me (for.. real real..), unlike many others.. End 1: And after sending my first two halfs of income there (March/Apr. 2018) and a bit more (2.500€): Said it would get a passport (and f.e. something for custody for its son...) (and come back). Its "mother" (with whom I had contact with, only spanish with translator) wrote after a while, that her daughter ("su reina") didn't got a passport (because the state was letting it down) and that it had went to Colombia. No further mail / message from that "person" or explanations from the "mother" (who had told me once f.e., that I should imagine the son saying something like: "Papa S. teach me volleyball.." as if I didn't (only) imagined, .. hoped, wished, dreamed enough already.. (and that "she" was reading "Mi lucha"...). (I fell.. deep.. hard.. and my mother wanted me to go to the police already.. although I ignored every other opinion.. just like it wanted me to..) ------------------------------------------------------------------------- (Christmas 2018/) Jan. 2019 (transfer in comments): Contact from my side via mail. (guess I always was to "weak" (not to look, not to ask, not to feel, to give up) / goodhearted? / stupid?) (derlyale_13@hotmail.com) First answer included a question for money.., to get its mother and son to Colombia.. but this like many other things, never happened.. (it said) (electricity shortage at the Venezuelan airport this time) The same as the years before followed, but more (and more) bold and cold, with hope in between.. It always was a master of making me feel great or guilty or everything between.. "See me now." F.e. what led to the last transfer(s): "Person" told me, that it got the feeling, that I wouldn't care at all no more about its son and it, after I didn't send money for a while.. (son was left behind in Vene. (although "she" would have never went anywhere without him), cousin couldn't care anymore) (who would be so bold? .. but lastly I still cared.. maybe hoped..) Told me that it would be better for its son to go to Spain some time before and asked, if I wanted it to visit me before going there. My answer(s) like all the others came from my heart (although everything felt wrong..) Said and ment, I would go to Spain and leave everything here behind .. well and I wanted to test it and hold it, because I was at the police.. (in another long absence, after Corona started and I saw activity on tusclases*x ) Even asked for my forever short before.. because it needed.. to.. know... (from me.. of all people.. "her person".. "babe".. after (those) 4.5 years.. really? .. Well here it is. (and I ALMOST am sorry.. like all those times before..)) End 2 (transfer in comments): And after those last 5.000€ Sep. 2020 (plus 2x 2000€ later -> to make it feel or at least write.. whatever.. a bad idea like all of it) and telling "my" "person" that I found something suspiciuos (activity on Instagram, although it was gone after the transfer as.. all the times before) no contact anymore. Last thing I heard, 3 weeks after (29. Sep. 2020), was, that ("Sorry" / "Don't hate me"/.. whatever "but") it had to get its son out of Venezuela, that it couldn't believe how big he was, couldn't read my (3-5) mails (with me assuming and so on) and that it would come back.. as soon as it would have internet again... I went kind of crazy not knowing.. back and force, nice and not so nice and almost begged for much to long (2 years with brakes to be precise) to get at least a last mail, a cut (since knowing was always out of question). I wrote all this here and more, was open about everything, understanding even more than before, mean, harsh and nice again.. but I guess it didn't felt like writing whatever would be of any.. worth .... In Feb. 2023 I found the attached visa application.. and went to the police.. again, but this time for real. -> The U.S. visa attachement means, that the first best thing (Date: 22.12.2020), "my" "person" did, was to plan a trip to the U.S. (with the son, the "mother", everyone..) after I did send a fcking lot of money again (the 5.000€ in Sep. 2020) and didn't cared to let me go at least.. And I guess that's just the tip of the iceberg. (and 20.000€ monthly.. in what world?) Have a lot (but not all) of the Whatsapp messages, mails and pictures (not much, because (off course) the phone couldn't make any; but some originals) and off course bank transfer data (examples attached). (found on my old notebook, from the first time I went to the police, but stopped.. to give "her" one of those many many chances.. to make it right) Pictures from 2019 on (or when I started to look at details) where with a GMT +02:00 timestamp (max. 2min between receiving mail and taking pictures, with same time as mail, which would have had to differ) and the spanish bank account and the phone/sim and the times we wrote.., BUT "person" said, it was NOT in Spain (quite often and mean.. as everytime I assumed "bad" things), but in Cucuta, Colombia (working in an restaurant (boss tried to abuse "her") and for an old lady later (and everyone had Corona then)). And because the phone for Skype (bought from a friend in Spain (off course)) was defect (off course). (There was another before, that couldn't make calls out of country.. and it wouldn't give the number to anyone.. and when I got upset -> a long cruel mail with f.e.: I couldn't buy "her") One time Skype call here (no video off course), one phone call in 2016 (via "grandma"; and there was an old lady on the phone, when I called back and "my" person told me, that this (her grandma) couldn't even speak to good spanish, because native). Prosecution here said, that not every case of lovescam can be traced juridically.. because no specific reason to transfer money was given and because I never had reason to believe, I would get money back. (and it never was about this for me anyway (although that was one of the less mean things, I got). no strings attached (but one.. knowing at least). my mistake) So: it's just my own fault and everything is okay. And: Everyone should be aware and ask him-/herself, if the risk to loose time and feel (more or more) pain TO give money and feel fcked up only in an endless end, always with but without that "person", is worth to give trust and care to what one is/was shown, sees (or once saw) in "them". (I thought it was.. but not for this. I guess you should risk to let "them" suffer and go to hell, to not get fcked up Yourself. (no matter how much worse this world might become, when You cannot risk to trust and care about/for someone ("known" or not.. loved or not..) that tells You it needs this.. again and again and again..) Because it's not You helping "them" or even "them" and You against the world (for a day, that might/will never come). NO: "They" only help themselves and "they" don't even give a damn, if You life or die. But instead are cruel, selfish, mean and fcked up enough to use EVERYTHING "against" the once that care so much about "them".. that they make own lies even.. to protect the once given. And then "they" leave You split (or "paranoid" as it said), empty and broken as You got "for" "them", without feeling any human emotion.. ever. Not for "stupid" people.) And one could ask, why I did ever "believe" (more like wished to).. seeing all this.. Maybe find the answers between the lines. The best answer would be, that I never took the "EASY way" there.. (one more thing that "person" mentioned to.. "appeal to".. those feelings, that were so strong in me and that IT never had. It : "had me* for the feelings" (March/Apr. 2018))
Comment / Review	Internet presence: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ale_drummer (can only see the first page) Tusclases particulares (since like Aug. 2018 -> after leaving for Colombia; went down 2 months after report; pic in comments): https://www.tusclasesparticulares.com/profesores/derly-alejandra-martinez-guerrero.htm Fun fact: x : "Person" told me that this was created for giving online lessons, but "person" couldn't be online (for "us") and then used by a friend.. And there are other Tusclases platforms out of Spain as well.. Plus classgap (also 2018 -> age 31) (also down after report): https://www.classgap.com/es/tutor/derly-alejandra-martinez-guerrero (picture -> obviously Cucuta, Colombia (inland)... or Venezuela or Aruba.. not Barcelona, Spain..) Other / old mail: derlyale13@gmail.com Skype: ale_1387 (for Birthday: 13.06.87 (gratulated (almost) everytime, although often indirectly..) Spain (because SIM (and phone) from friend in Spain obviously) Also on Facebook, myspace, twitter: (all found around 2018-2020, when I started to "investigate" harder) https://www.facebook.com/ale.drummer.3 https://myspace.com/ale_drummer https://twitter.com/Aleee_Drummer (there were some pics on Myspace once, showing that "human" with friends, in a water park, with drums, at some birthday, with its former husband ("person" told he (just) left for Colombia)) And btw.: so much for not being able to get the mother to "Colombia" in 2019: https://es.linkedin.com/in/derly-guerrero-80b3ab1a4 -> search for "Derly Guerrero Espana LinkedIn" on Dogpile f.e. Old addresses (for packages and bank transfers (2015-2018)): urb.la rosaleda sur, edif. Urica, xx, apt xx, San Antonio de los Altos, Estada Miranda, Venezuela 1204 ("her" (mean) "grandma", where "she" lived with "her" son until thrown out) (Besides.. writing that down by hand each time for the money transfers was kind of a pain in the .) And: Edif. Hotel Alba Caracas, Dtto. Capital., Nivel Lobby, 1010 Caracas, Venezuela (where "they" did let it get mail and packages) Phone "grandma": 0058212735xxxx Last thoughts: And still.. a smaller and smaller part.. sometimes SAID.. if "my".. "flower" ("sweet devil", "dewdrop", ..) would HAVE wrote, as if this text here (and my last 100ds of mails), wouldn't exist (and all the.. discrepancies or the time or anyone else..).. some part of me would HAVE almost wanted to do so as well. Sometimes "she" would have "freaked" out about the smallest, most indirect assumings. Sometimes "she" would have ignored complete mails, be "understanding" or really really "nice". Although "we" "both" might have known, that what "she" told so so insistently and just everything was a lie. And that was the worsed feeling.. that was my hell there. (I really cared.. and always tried to understand.. even this..) For me it was personal, for me it was a big part of my life and it had REAL consequences and it has. For I WAS the one laying there before sleeping, still rarely thinking, what that "person", that created itself in my head, that was never "mine", "might" never have wasted a thought on ME, might think, might feel, might do (before sleeping or how it could sleep at all..).. But this WAS all b.s. and nothing of this, maybe not even the 2nd walk to the Police would have existed, if this "person" wouldn't have been a "bad" "winner" on top of all.. Then again: There WAS nothing to understand and nothing good, there was just nothing and never was, just manipulation for the "thing we both hated" (its words again). (Or am I wrong (to be so "mean")? It: "I don't know what to think anymore.", "That's what You get, when You are good to people. They fck You up more.".., "You have to make it better again.", "I could doubt You as well." .. Yeah, right.. That "person" turned all all the good things I did and wrote (thousands of nice things, poems and stuff..) into worthless SHT only, making me feel used only.. after I felt manipulated (underneath), swallowed it down, for years, having faith.. having feelings.. believing with my heart.. (in "her" and "her" son, a bit "us", at least some good..) Again..: Be smarter than me. Sometimes.. one and one IS two only.. although they might assure You so so sooo much, that it's one.. (or three or five..) P.s.: Facts: I did wrote (and talked) with someone, I did send money and packages to someone (namely and with an address) and even IF I would be just crazy only or it was NOT the real Derly (it disliked that first name > same as mother) Alejandra Martinez Guerrero, that did at least anything with/to me (AND ghosted me after 5 years.. of this..), that person might(?) have reacted in some way? Or wouldn't it? .. And I'm the last one, the last one.. that wouldn't HAVE tried to understand, wouldn't HAVE taken.. whatever.. and let things go.. although not even I could ever forgive (..easily) all all those horrible things (the lies.. okay, but even more so the "nice" things and little portions of "truth" that wouldn't have had to be to just manipulate (for, sorry: fcking money only) and the long long time I did let that happen (though it's two sides always)). Really. It: "Did You already forget about me?" (somewhen in 2016, no message from me for some.. hours..) -> I just hate now, that I will never be able to.. .. I'm not perfect, I didn't wished to victimize myself to hard here, but I know: EVERYONE is worth more and NO ONE should be treated like this.. especially me, cause I'm a "good" guy (and possibly one of the best this "person" could have wished for).. (fun mode off) * doing so much, knowing(?): so little (not even if I wrote with a "person" (at all.., in the first year)), hell even going on, while feeling (so) lied to and "treated" like nothing (before) ment anything (to push me to give more, presumably).. like I was just a stupid, unworthy, far away thing to get what IT needed from.. (What could I have done in the real world with this.. energy?? (Did "You" ever ask Yourself this? Off course not. ..) .. Now, for sure, I don't want to want no one anymore (that badly). ("Nunca mas".. ((nunca menos))) Attachement - U.S. visa (dogpile -> search for given name -> deleted after report) (Thankfully those other 2 Visa applications are deleted now (2023-11-xx). Wouldn't want the "mother" bad and especially the son (who (as well) was used by this "person" to make me "help").)
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